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纪念我的外公外婆

转载一篇E文,愿我亲爱的外公外婆在另一个世界里继续幸福快乐的生活……

Swans Mate for Life–Hal Torrance

    The end of my sophomore year was approaching. Mom called me at the dorm one muggy evening during the last week of May. My summer break would be spent with grandma and grandpa, helping out around their farm. The arrangement made good sense to all the family. I wasn’t fully convinced of that myself but figured it was just one summer. Next year would be my little brother’s turn.
    I packed my car after my last exam and said my good-byes until the fall. My friends would keep until then. Most of them were going home for the summer any-way.
    The farm was about a three-hour drive from school. My grandparents were both in their seventies, and I knew they really needed the help around the farm. Getting in the hay would be something grandpa couldn’t do by himself. He also needed help with repairs to the barns and a host of other chores.
    I arrived late that afternoon. Grandma had fixed more food than the three of us could possibly eat. She doted over me entirely too much. I figured all the attention would taper off once she got used to having me around, but it didn’t. Grandpa wanted to bring me up to date on literally everything. By the time I settled in for bed that night, I’d decided things would be okay. After all, it was just for one summer.
    The next morning, Grandpa fixed breakfast for the two of us. He told me Grandma had tired herself out yesterday and was going to rest in bed a little longer. I made a mental note to myself to not ask her to do things for me while I was there. I was there to help, not be a burden.
    Grandpa surprised me that morning. Once we were out of the house, he seemed more in his own element. The farm was his domain. Despite his age, there was confidence in the way he moved about the place. He didn’t seem like the same person who had fallen asleep last night on the couch before the six o’clock news was finished. As we walked the pastures getting a close-up look at the livestock, Grandpa seemed to know each cow. And there were nearly two hundred of them!
    We didn’t do much real work that first day, but I gained a sense of appreciation for what Grandpa had done all those years before I was even born. He wasn’t an educated man, but he had raised and provided for four children on this farm. I was impressed by that.
    Weeks passed. By June we had already baled one cutting of hay and gotten it safely into the barn. I gradually settled into a routine of daily work with Grandpa. He had a mental schedule of things that needed doing, and we worked on part of it each day. In the evenings I usually read or talked with Grandma. She never grew tired of hearing about college or anything I was involved in. She told me stories about her childhood, family and the early years after she and Grandpa had married.
    Weeks passed. By June we had already baled one cutting of hay and gotten it safely into the barn. I gradually settled into a routine of daily work with Grandpa. He had a mental schedule of things that needed doing, and we worked on part of it each day. In the evenings I usually read or talked with Grandma. She never grew tired of hearing about college or anything I was involved in. She told me stories about her childhood, family and the early years after she and Grandpa had married.
    The last Saturday in June, Grandpa suggested we go fishing, since we were caught up on everything. The pond was in a low pasture near the woods. Years before, Grandpa had stocked it with fish. We drove the pickup to the pond that day, looking over the livestock as we went. We hadn’t expected what we saw when we got to the pond that morning: One of the swans was dead. Grandpa had given the pair of swans to Grandma on their fiftieth anniversary. "Why don’t we see about buying another one," I suggested, hoping the situation could somehow be righted. Grandpa thought for a few moments before answering.
    He finally said, "no… it’s not that easy, Bruce. You see, swans mate for life." He raised his finger to point, holding the fishing pole in his other hand. "There’s nothing we can do for the one that’s left. He has to work it out for himself."
    We caught enough fish that morning for lunch. On the way back to the house, Grandpa asked me not to tell Grandma about the swan. She didn’t get down to the pond much anymore, and there was no sense in her knowing about it right away.
    A few days later, we drove by the pond while doing our morning check on the cows. We found the other swan lying near the same spot we had found the first one. It, too, was dead.
    The month of July started with me and Grandpa putting up a new stretch of fence. Then July 12 came. That was the day Grandma passed away. I’d overslept that morning. Grandpa had not knocked on my door, either. It was nearly eight o’clock by the time I could hurriedly dress myself and get down to the kitchen. I saw Dr. Morgan sitting at the kitchen table. He was a neighbor of my grandparents’ age, long since retired. He’d come to the house several times before on social calls. I immediately knew something was wrong. This morning, his tattered old black bag was by his feet, and my grandfather was obviously shaken. Grandma had died suddenly that morning of a stroke. By the afternoon, my parents were there. The old house was soon crowded with relatives and Grandpa’s friends.
    The funeral was held the next day. Grandpa had insisted on having it as soon as possible. On the second day after the funeral, Grandpa announced at the breakfast table, "This is a working farm. We have a lot of things to do. The rest of you should get back to your own lives." Most of the family had already left, but this was Grandpa’s way of telling the rest it was time for them to go home. My parents were the last to leave after lunch.
    Grandpa was not a man who could outwardly express his grief around others, and we all worried about him. There had been talk of his giving up the farm. My parents thought he was too old to live out there alone. He wouldn’t hear of it, though. I was proud of the way the old man had stood his ground. The rest of the summer flowed by. We stayed busy working. I thought there was something different about Grandpa but couldn’t quite put my finger on it. I started to wonder if he would be better off living with someone after all, but I knew he could not leave the farm.
    September was nearing, and part of me did not want to leave. I thought of skipping the fall semester and staying around a few more months. When I mentioned it, grandpa quickly told me that my place was back at college.
    The day finally came for me to pack my car and leave. I shook his hand and chanced a hug. As I drove down the driveway, I saw him in the rearview mirror. He waved to me and then walked to the pasture gate to start the morning livestock check. That’s how I like to remember him.
    Mom called me at school on a blustery October day to tell me Grandpa had died. A neighbor had stopped by that morning for coffee and found him in the kitchen. He died of a stroke, same as Grandma. At that moment, I understood what he’d clumsily tried to explain to me about the swan on that morning we fished together by the pond.

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钓鱼!钓鱼!之4.25

取个近期流行标题命名法,不过没有标题党的意思哦~

上周末,顶着33度的高温,和biofish一起带着个小朋友前往sugar hollow reservoir,就是上次我收获bass大鱼王的地方,不过奋战了近三个小时,除了小朋友钓上了他的第一条鱼,一条sunfish以外,都没有鱼咬钩,于是想转战机场湖(chris greene),刚刚有朋友告诉我他们去那里玩的时候看到很多鱼。


View fishing in a larger map

先放上我制作的Charlottesville钓鱼地图,基本上,我们就是要从图上最上面的左边那个钓鱼点去往右边的那个点。在GPS的带领下,biofish载着我们开向莽莽大山……

然而,欲速则不达呀,当我们在崎岖的山路上颠簸了近半个小时,以为翻过山头就能到达目的地的时候,一条铁索拦住了我们前行的路……

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欲损坏美国国家财产奈何我们血肉之躯,郁闷的我们只得原路返回另觅他路……以下是沿途的一些风光,照片太多,懒得筛选了,全上传了,随便测试一下上传速度,:)

到了机场湖,已近黄昏,biofish大师须臾便发现钓crappie的法门,在天黑之前我们终于有了不少收获,不过我除了一条大一点以外都是小鱼,真是罪过,我都把他们制成鱼干了,哈哈~

饥肠辘辘,去大吃了一顿buffet,爽!

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随记

又又又好久没更新了

今天看到阿玮居然上传了几张照片,大家可以猛击这里观赏——心里戚戚然,于是想写上几句

其实还是经常有些想写点什么的冲动的,只是没有把这个冲动化为实际行动而已。我想,很多人都是这样,很多事情都是这样,很多理想也是这样吧

前些日子去了DC,完成了我人生里的两个第一次,第一次坐美国地铁,第一次逛动物园(除了小时候去我那小县城里的一个小“动物园”),以下是一些精选照片:

上周,开春第一钓,上钩了一条8bl!的bass,以下是图片精选:

本来想插入图片的,可以加了picasa插件的live writer很不稳定,浪费了我好些感情,现在刚好可以实验对比google和microsoft的在线相册,呵呵~~  
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